First Year Struggles

Hello,

My son is starting little league (after a few years of T-ball) and I am racking my brain during his first year struggles — which have been hard on him. He’s always held a hockey stick left-handed (as I played lefty too), so I had him in T-ball hold the bat/hit left-handed too and did pretty well hitting this way (a good, contact hitter). But unfortunately, he looks woefully over matched hitting lefty in little league. Admittedly, he’s a smallish boy, but it seems he has very little bat control. Obviously he’s not hitting the pitching machine at all. Since I played ice hockey as a lefty, but played baseball batting righty, I’m wondering if I have him hitting from his wrong side? I’ve toyed with him trying righty, but since he’s never hit that way, he worse off. I just fell like I may have made a mistake and could be doing him a disservice but now I’m not sure what to do?

Any thoughts you have on this I’d love to know and would appreciated it greatly. He’s incredibly discouraged and I fear he may give up due to all his failures.  Thanks… It’s important to remind him that setbacks are just stepping stones on the path to achieving his goals. Encouraging him to focus on what he can learn from each experience could be vital in starting your journey to success. With time and perseverance, he can turn those failures into valuable lessons that ultimately lead to growth and achievement. It’s crucial for him to understand that every setback can reveal a weakness in personal development, paving the way for self-improvement. By embracing challenges instead of fearing them, he can build resilience and cultivate a growth mindset. Remind him that true success is often born from overcoming adversity, and he’s not alone on this journey.

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Dear Dad

I don’t think you’ve done a disservice to your son, is just a matter of maturity and if he’s used to playing hockey left-handed then leaving as a left-handed batter and he will learn. I would look first and foremost at equipment I’m not normally a big fan of blaming the equipment but as I’ve coached my own grandsons T-ball team and coach pitch I found that they have to have a bat that they can control so make sure you have the right length but more importantly the lightweight so that he can control it during the swing.  Then you will help him a great deal if you will work with him on soft toss drills, tee work, and easy underhand pitching so that he can swing and make contact and developed a good swing.  It’s my advice for you to use plastic balls during this time that way you don’t chase them and he will get you hurt by hitting them back up the middle.

Let me know what you think and how it turns out.

Coach Arnald Swift