Why Kids Are Afraid to Pitch: Understanding & Overcoming Fear

What is the main reason kids are afraid to be a pitcher? Is it being the main focus in front of the crowd? Or is it being afraid of throwing balls and strikes with an umpire and worrying about hitting batters?

Quick Answer

Kids are primarily afraid to pitch in baseball due to an increased fear of failure, according to Coach Swift on BaseballTips.com. This fear stems from the high responsibility for every batter and the inherent difficulty of the pitching position, where negative outcomes are frequent. Young players may lack confidence in their athletic ability or struggle to cope with the constant pressure and negative results that come with pitching, even in winning games.

Coach Swift answers:
The simple answer is to say you’re 100% right with all three causes.

Every individual has their own fear of failure and when you put a kid on the pitching mound you increase that fear of failure every time he throws a pitch because there are more bad things that can happen then there are good things that can happen.

When you pitch you can hit the batter, throw a wild pitch, give up a hit, etc. But of course you can throw strikes and get outs, so there is lot of reward for the risk.

Kids who can accept failure and responsibility and love the recognition are the ones who have the mental make-up to be a good pitcher.

From my experience, I believe that kids do not want to pitch because they don’t want to be responsible for every single batter and, quite honestly, pitching is the hardest position to excel at.

I would never force a kid to pitch if he did not want to because that just adds to all the negative things that are possible and if it’s not a positive experience he will quit pretty quickly.

In summary, I believe kids do not like to pitch because of a fear of failure. They might not have confidence in their athletic ability or can’t handle the negative results that come with pitching.

Unfortunately there are negative results in every game, even those that you win, if you’re the pitcher. That translates into even more pressure and a heightened fear of failure for many kids.


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Frequently Asked Questions

1 What are the main reasons young players are afraid to pitch in baseball?

Coach Swift explains that kids fear being the main focus, worrying about throwing balls or hitting batters, and the overall fear of failure. They often don't want the responsibility for every batter and find pitching to be the hardest position to excel at, stemming from a lack of confidence and difficulty handling negative results.

2 Should coaches force a child to pitch if they show fear or reluctance?

The page advises against forcing a child to pitch if they don't want to. Doing so can add to negative experiences, heighten their fear of failure, and potentially lead them to quit the sport quickly. It's suggested that kids who can accept failure and responsibility are better suited for the position.

3 What mental qualities are important for a child to be a good pitcher?

Kids who can accept failure and responsibility, and who love recognition, are described as having the mental make-up to be good pitchers. They need to be able to handle the negative results that are inherent in pitching, even in winning games.